Online and Tucson, Arizona (520) 237-0862
Anew Coaching & Counseling for Change, Online or Office Visit
"Helping to Create a Positive Vision for Change"
Merl Will-Walllace Professional Coach & Counselor
How I Can Help
My Scope of Counseling Practice
There are some key problems and issues that my clients face that cause them to seek therapy. I have worked extensively with people in the following areas:
- PTSD - is now experienced by most people and not just war veterans. COVID reality has traumatized us in ways that dramatically effect our lives. Addressing the problems caused by the pandemic can dramatically reduce personal Suffering.
- Unresolved Childhood Trauma - whether conscious or unconscious children suffer from attachment issues during early development. These issues, ranging from mild to severe, unconsciously influence/control adult behavior that normally has a negative impact on others. Addressing these attachment issues (wounded exiles) can make a dramatic difference in how you connect with others in the present.
- Alcohol and Drug Abuse - In IFS alcohol and drug abuse are considered 'parts' that represent an escape, last line of defense to overwhelming issues. IFS looks to identify and address the underlying issues that activate this 'firefighter part'. With over 6 years of group leadership in alcohol and drug abuse treatment I have seen this IFS approach work effectively for guests who may choose total abstinence or who may continue to use in moderation. Still, moderation is risky as other parts may trigger this 'firefighter' in the future.
- Overwhelming Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual Issues - events in our lives can lead to mental, emotional and spiritual overwhelm. This may be a death of a close loved one, a personal or family financial crisis, and the isolation of COVID restrictions. Overwhelm is often the function of codependent behavior. I work to identify and reconcile codependent behavior to move towards interdependence, a much more effective way to communicate and emotionally connect.
- Inability to Face and Navigate Significant Change - Retirement, moving and resettling, new personal sense of purpose that is now out of alignment with others. My change model has been tested to be extremely effective in taking out the ossicles, internally and externally, to making change.
- Sexual Orientation and Appearance Trauma - Who are we to pass judgment? Well many do. Fiends, school mates, and most importantly , family. Whoever passes judgment will create trauma in the psyche of the person who's attention they judge. With the expansion of social media this has accelerated and intensified the judging and shaming process, leaving even deeper scars. Therapy becomes an important tool for stepping outside the judgment and shame to be your true self.
Professional and Business Coach
have assisted individuals and businesses in navigating positive changes for growth and development.
- Individual, Professional Development - If you are having difficulties with management or coworkers to the point that your performance is being adversely viewed and graded in ongoing evaluations you can use some independent coaching. The company will often offer three Employee Assistance Visit. Most people find this to be totally inadequate. Seeking outside coaching can be a good alternative.
- Small Business Development - Business leaders can also become stuck in identifying, structuring and implementing business changes that help the company grow and prosper.
Who Will Benefit
Over my years of practice I discovered that the inability to work with the changes in our life creates mental, emotional and distress. My approach assist a wide range of issues:
- Individuals with Problems & Concerns
- Couples Experiencing Difficulties
- Individuals Recovering from Alcohol & Drug Abuse
- Loss of Spiritual Focus
- Stagnant Personal Growth
- Small business growth and direction
My Approach to Coaching & Counseling Change
Change is always a positive event in our life, no matter how it initially appears to us. It is our responsibility to release what no longer serves us, understand how we will be changed by the process, and to emerge stronger, wiser and more flexible to all of life’s challenges.
I explore how to work with change as a personal growth process in your life.
My Approach to Therapy - IFS Based
Over the years it has become clear that the issues each individual brings to therapy is unique and requires a customized approach to make meaningful progress and to relieve the cause of suffering. To this end I utilize a variety of effective psychotherapy techniques that include:
- Internal Family Systems Therapy
- Client (Person) Centered Therapy
- Emotionally Focused Therapy
- Mindfulness and Compassionate Therapy
- Gestalt Therapy
- EMDR Trauma Treatment
What ever mix of therapy utilized Internal Family Systems (IFS) is the essential underpinning.
Personalized Individual Therapy
Over the years it has become clear that the issues each individual brings to therapy is unique and requires a customized approach to make meaningful progress and to relieve the cause of suffering. To this end I utilize a variety of effective psychotherapy techniques that include:
- Internal Family Systems Therapy
- Client (Person) Centered Therapy
- Emotionally Focused Therapy
- Mindfulness and Compassionate Therapy
- Gestalt Therapy
- EMDR Trauma Treatment
What ever mix of therapy utilized Internal Family Systems (IFS) is the essential underpinning.
Key Areas of Change Requiring Assistance
Sudden and Dramatic Physical, Mental and Emotional Changes
Sudden and Dramatic Physical, Mental and Emotional Changes
Sudden and Dramatic Physical, Mental and Emotional Changes
The move to Panama is just one of multiple changes that can be stress and anxiety producing. Retirement, sale of home, moving and starting in a new country can create a sense of loss of control. I can help you to find the way forward with greater ability and ease.
Trauma & Loss
Sudden and Dramatic Physical, Mental and Emotional Changes
Sudden and Dramatic Physical, Mental and Emotional Changes
Many individuals can experience symptoms associated with painful and traumatic circumstances. Loss of a loved one, divorce, verbal abuse are just a few of the traumas that can cause anxiety, fear, and hopelessness . I can help you overcome these symptoms and guide you through the process of grief and healing.
Relationships
Sudden and Dramatic Physical, Mental and Emotional Changes
Relationships
Relationship counseling can be beneficial to couples who are looking to strengthen their emotional connection, through all stages of their relationship. Therapy sessions are held with both couples and is a supportive place to discuss issues and solutions to better strengthen your relationship.
What to Expect and What is New
Anew Custom Services
Anew Counseling for Change and Internal Family Systems therapy are synergistic based to provide a path in relieving suffering, hasten growth, and to stabilize personal transitions in a program similar to Spiral Dynamics. Counseling and Coaching services include:
- Flexible Session Visits and Length - are patient driven. Individual session can be either one hour or an hour and a half. Session intervals can be from twice a week to monthly.
- Coaching Counseling Mix - Merl is trained both as a counselor and coach making Merl very capable of mixing both techniques to drive timely outcomes, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
- Capable to Navigate the Multi-Dimensional Mind Field - Merl's personal development of Self makes him the perfect partner in exploring the internal world.
- Multiple Skill Sets Supporting Various Therapy Needs - Merl has worked in alcohol and drug treatment, individual counseling, couples counseling, group therapy and business coaching.
Recent Move From Panama to Tucson
Merl and Barbara have faced their own challenges in making multiple, dramatic changes as they transitioned from quiet and peaceful Boquete, Panama to the hustle and bustle of Tucson, Arizona.When asked why make such a dramatic set of changes Merl simply replied, "I sensed a greater need for my services and skills in the United States and Arizona at this time."
Client Testimonials
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Types of Sessions
Initial Session Individual or Couples
(90 Minutes) This is a longer session due to the involvement of intake, discussion of needs and approach, and answering questions.
Follow up Session Individual
(60 minutes) Sessions include review of progress, inquiry into issues, mindfullness and compassion practice and reorientation, self discovery, integration of learning.
Follow up Session Couples
(60 minutes) Sessions include review of progress, inquiry into issues, mindfullness and compassion practice and reorientation, self and couples discovery, integration of learning.
Strategic Management Consulting Business
(fee per hour) Assistance with developing strategic plans for the overall business or specific business segments.
Operational Management Consulting - Business
(fee per hour) Assistance with developing operational plans for the overall business or specific business segments.
Testimonials
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No Cost 30-minute Phone Exchange
Let's face it, picking a therapist is a big deal. I offer a 30 minute, free phone conversation for you to get to know me, how I work and it my experience can help you or a loved one. It's up to you. Take a chance